FREE 5-MINUTE QUIZ FOR MEN THAT LEAD

You're not stuck. You're standing at an edge.

Find out the current internal threshold limiting your ability to become the man the next season of your vision & mission requires.

You're not lazy. You're not lacking discipline. You're not broken.

You're standing at an threshold.

Every man who takes his leadership, his relationships and his mission seriously reaches a point where effort stops working the way it used to, and the way he's been leading can't carry what's asking to come through him next. Something internal has to shift before anything external can change.

That point is an edge. Every edge is where an old version of you ends and the man your vision, mission and relationships require begins. This quiz names the one you're standing at right now and gives you a grounded first step to start crossing it.

After taking this 5 minute quiz, you'll know...

✅ Your Leadership Edge:

The internal threshold currently limiting your ability to amplify your impact, deepen your relationships, and grow your leadership, named clearly, so you can stop circling it and start crossing it.

✅ Your Next Initiation:

A free Leadership Initiation Guide built for your edge, with a practice, a 48 hour challenge and a declaration, plus a clear path into the five week work made for exactly where you are.

Every man has an edge. What's yours?

THE COMMITMENT EDGE

You have vision, maybe too much of it, and you keep postponing the one that matters. You pivot in your work and hold back from going all in at home, because choosing one path feels like losing all the others. Your edge is commitment, not capability.

THE INTEGRITY EDGE

You know the man you want to be, and an old pattern keeps pulling you away from him. You overcommit, break the promises you make to yourself and keep telling the people you love that things will change. Your edge is integrity, not willpower.

THE SUSTAINABILITY EDGE

You lead in bursts and then collapse, with no rhythm, practice or structure holding you. Everything runs through you, and by the time you get home there’s nothing left. Your edge is sustainability, not effort.

THE INTIMACY EDGE

You’re capable and committed, and you’re doing it alone. People get close up to a point, then the wall goes up, at work and with the person closest to you. Your edge is openness, not strength.

THE EXPRESSION EDGE

You know what’s true for you and you keep editing it before it reaches anyone. You water down your message and hold back what you really want, because some part of you believes your full truth is too much. Your edge is expression, not ability.

Take The Quiz

Answer the following 10 questions:

Who This Is For

This is for the man who:

The man who knows he's meant for more but keeps hitting the same invisible ceiling.

The founder or leader who has the vision but can't seem to sustain the momentum.

The leader who shows up for everyone else but struggles to show up for himself.

The man whose relationships, business, and purpose are all calling him to a new level but something internal keeps holding him back.

If that's you, this is your next step.

When something feels "off," it's not your ability. It's your leadership edge. Crossing that threshold changes everything.

This quiz helps you identify the exact edge you must grow through to become the man the next season of your vision & mission requires.

For years I measured my worth by output, achievement, and income. On paper I was successful. Inside I was disconnected. My purpose felt heavy. My relationships strained under the weight of my ambition.

When I stopped chasing and started listening, I found what was missing: clarity, capacity, and conviction.

That search led me through years of training in men’s work, somatic experiencing, trauma-informed coaching, embodiment, and wilderness rites of passage.

I am a master certified coach, embodiment teacher, and wilderness rite of passage guide with close to a decade of experience working with purpose-driven men. I also bring over 15 years of business and marketing experience and have supported hundreds of leaders, founders, entrepreneurs, and service providers at a deep level.

My work weaves psychology, somatic practice, shadow work, and initiatory experience. I do not help men add more to their plate. I help them become the man who can hold what they are building.

My mission is to initiate men into a new paradigm of leadership where men lead with truth, integrity, and love, in every domain of their life.

10,000+

hours coaching purpose driven men

15+ Years

business and marketing experience

Master Certified

Master Certified Coach, Elementum Coaching Institute

5+ Years

guiding wilderness rites of passage

2+ Years

Masculine Embodiment & Sacred Intimacy Teacher Training with John Wineland

José has trained and apprenticed with world-renowned teachers in somatic healing, embodied leadership, relational intimacy, depth psychology, men’s work and initiation.