"Anything you can imagine is real–
but first you must embody it."
Hey, I’m Jose Alejandro.
I am a master certified men's life & leadership coach, impact-driven business mentor, somatic practitioner, men's work facilitator and wilderness rite of passage guide.
My work lives at the intersection of leadership, intimacy, and purpose.
Men come to me to increase their capacity to lead and love so they can create aligned success deepen their relationships and amplify their impact in a way that reflects who they truly are.
I have trained and apprenticed with world-renowned teachers in embodiment, leadership, relational intimacy, men’s work, and rites of passage. My approach weaves together psychology, somatic practice, intentional strategy, and initiatory experiences that help men break through self-sabotage, build emotional resilience, and create lives rooted in truth, integrity and devotion.
But beneath the titles, my work is simply a reflection of my own initiation..
From a young age I learned to negotiate my truth to keep the peace. I chased achievement, overperformed in my career, and wore identities that looked successful but were built on insecurity. On the outside I had the relationship, the job, the vision. Inside I felt disconnected from myself, overwhelmed by pressure, and exhausted by the gap between who I was and who I knew I could become.
Everything shifted during a difficult chapter in my life and relationship. I was forced to confront the patterns I had avoided and take responsibility for the man I was becoming. Therapy gave me insight, but it was men’s work that gave me initiation. This looked like a circle of men who challenged my defenses, reflected my blind spots, and called me into integrity.
From there, my path unfolded. Somatic healing. Trauma-informed Coaching. Breathwork. Sacred intimacy. Embodied leadership. Wilderness rites of passages.
Each layer stripped away what was false and strengthened my capacity to hold the life I was here to build.
Those experiences became the foundation of The Initiated Path—the world I now lead men through.
Today I guide purpose-driven men into embodied leadership through private coaching, my IMPACT program, the Training Grounds community, immersive retreats, and wilderness initiations. My work helps men expand clarity and capacity and conviction so they can lead their lives, their relationships, and their missions with truth and integrity.
My mission is simple:
To initiate a new generation of men into conscious embodied leadership rooted in truth integrity and love.
Men who know who they are what they stand for and how to hold the lives they are called to lead.
Welcome to The Initiated Path.
The Pillars of My Work
Men do not transform through information. They transform through initiation through expanding their capacity to lead themselves their relationships and their mission with truth and integrity. These are the pillars that shape every aspect of my work:
Clarity of Vision
A man must know where he is going and why. We strip away noise and doubt so your mission becomes undeniable
and your actions align with the life you are here to build.
Somatic Capacity
Your nervous system is the foundation of your leadership. When you expand your capacity to feel, to hold pressure, to stay open in intensity,
your entire life changes.
Emotional Mastery
Leadership collapses when emotion leads the man. We strengthen your ability to stay present
speak truth
move through fear
and respond instead of react.
Relational Leadership
Intimacy is a mirror for your leadership. Here you learn to create safety depth and connection
so your relationship becomes fuel for your mission not friction that pulls you off center.
Aligned Impact
Your purpose means nothing without embodiment. We integrate strategy with inner work so your income and leadership rise with integrity
and your mission reflects the man you are becoming.
JOSÉ ALEJANDRO
Jose Alejandro's Experience
These are all modalities we’re using when working together:
Mirroring & Self-Exploration
Life Coaching
Marketing & Biz Consulting
Embodied Leadership Training
Trauma-informed healing modalities
Men’swork & Group Dynamics
Visioning & Purpose Clarity
Brand & Personal Integrity
Elite Level Goal Setting & Accountability
Wilderness Rite of Passages
Transformational Breathwork
Spiritual / Ancestral Wisdom
Internal Family Systems
Human Behavioral Psychology
Nervous system Regulation
Masculine & Feminine Dynamics
Non-Violent Communication
Money / Abundance Mindset
Mindfulness & Grounding Practices
NLP
Plant Medicine Integration
Somatics & Mind/body connection
– Elementum Coaching Institute: Master Coaching Certification (2021)
– Guides Guild: 3 Year Wilderness Rites Guide Apprenticeship (2021-2024)
– O2 Collective | Dan Brule: Breathwork Fundamentals Certification
– COMPASS | Rising Man Movement : 4 Month Leadership Program and Traditional Wilderness Rite of Passage (2020)
– (2) Inferno | Rising Man Movement: Men’s Work Training (2021)
– DOJO | Rising Man Movement: Year Long Embodied Leadership Training Program (2021-2022)
– Path of Embodied Masculine | John Wineland: 6 Month Masculine Embodiment Program (2021)
– The Rope | Rainier Wylde: 12 Week Men’s Program (2021)
– 1-on-1 Shadow Work Program | Rainier Wylde: 3 Month Shadow Work Training (2021)
– Sacred Intimacy & Embodiment Teacher Training | John Wineland: (2024-Present)
– Multiple Art of Sacred Intimacy Workshops | John Wineland (2020-Present)
– 1000’s of hours coaching men individually and group setting
– 10+ Years Marketing and Business Experience
– 8+ Years Participating and Leading Men’s Groups
– 300+ Individuals Guided Through Somatic Breathwork Journeys
– 1000’s of hours of my own work and practice
What Others Are Saying...
I found so much joy working with Jose and being in his program. I’m moving forward making a bigger impact and feeling a lot of gratitude for this container.
Earl S.
The caliber of men that Jose brings into his program speaks to who he is and his vision. The information is presented in a way that is both powerful and digestible. His commitment to empowering men and my impact was incredible.
Soma M.
Working with Jose has helped me level up in so many areas of my life. l’ve been able compassionately transform myself, honor my inner child and move on to become a healthier man and leader in all areas of my life.
Antonio F.
I am extremely grateful for the tools you gave me. Thank you for what you do to and for helping me find my truth, own my power and release all that trauma that was holding me back from my vision.
Luis E.
Jose really pushed me to my edge and helped me embody so much of what I was avoiding by holding a powerful space. His program helped me see the depth of my impact and who I am.
Ewan C.
Not only did you help me connect deeper to my own truth and expression, you allowed me to create new evidence that it is safe to trust and open. Your embodiment, listening ability and depth of presence are just a few of the many things I learned from you.
Robert S.
Working with Jose was, to date, the best coaching I have ever received. Simplicity, great questions, and the right practices at the right time. I was able to take my self-mastery to a deeper level and embody my vision. I would highly recommend working with Jose. Grateful for the experience.
Edgar M.
Working with Jose helped me feel more integrity in my relationships because I feel like I’m living authentically. With Jose’s help, I was able to allow myself to feel and release emotions, put in my notice at my job and get paid doing my first workshop! I am now living in a way that fires me up.
Rob F.
Jose’s coaching was powerful, supportive, caring. I feel more capable of handling ALL the emotions that come from life. I am less resistant to going into my shame, talking about my failures and mistakes, and am more willing to look at that with others.
Adam K.
Your quality of life and the impact in the world is a direct reflection of one thing:
your level of commitment to the inner work.
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