Why Coaching?
As an purpose-driven man, you’re giving everything you’ve got to your vision.
But deep down, something feels missing—something that connects your success with true fulfillment in your relationships and life.
We’ve been conditioned to believe that working harder, grinding longer, and finding the “perfect strategy” are the answers. And while strategy matters, it’s not enough. Without the inner work—emotional resilience, relational mastery, and embodied leadership—success will always feel incomplete or unsustainable.
Coaching bridges that gap. It’s not just for moments when you’re struggling. It’s what allows you to lead with integrity, clarity, and presence—so you can grow your business, deepen your relationships, and amplify your impact without sacrificing integrity, wellbeing or purpose.
The truth is: the man you become matters more than the strategy you use. Coaching helps you become the man your vision requires.
Everything you can imagine is real, but first you must embody it.
If you are reading this, you are ready to embody the next evolution of your vision.
Do any of this sound like you?
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You’re driven to succeed, but often feel like you’re sacrificing your health, your relationship, or your peace of mind in the process. -
You’ve reached a level of success, yet self-doubt, procrastination, or self-sabotage keep you from breaking through to the next one.
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You want to grow your business without burning out but it often feels like you have to choose between financial success and personal fulfillment.
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You crave deeper intimacy and connection with your partner, but struggle to be fully present after pouring so much into your work.
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You know you’re capable of more, but feel stuck in cycles of overworking, avoidance, or indecision.
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You want to embody purpose-driven leadership—clear, grounded, emotionally resilient—but aren’t sure how to align strategy with sustained action.
If any of this resonates, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
The Impact Method
The proven framework for impact-driven men to amplify impact, increase income, and deepen intimacy—without compromising integrity, values, or well-being.
Most men think success comes from working harder or finding the perfect strategy. But the truth is—without emotional resilience, relational depth, and aligned leadership, even the best strategies will fall short.
The Impact Method™ is my proven process for helping men increase their capacity to lead and love. By weaving together inner work, embodied resilience, intentional strategy, and high-level accountability, you’ll grow in every area of life—business, relationships, and leadership.
The Impact Method™ isn’t about adding more—it’s about becoming the leader your vision requires.
Why It Works?
Most men believe the answer is more hustle, better strategy, or pushing harder. But sustainable success doesn’t come from doing more—it comes from becoming the man who can hold the vision.
Psychology & Self-Exploration
Uncover blind spots, release limiting beliefs, and break through self-sabotaging patterns so you can fully step into your potential—with clarity in your purpose, power in your leadership, and depth in your relationships.
Embodiment Training
Develop the resilience, presence, and vitality required to hold more success and intimacy. This is where you build the capacity to lead and love from alignment, rather than pressure or performance.
Intentional Strategy
Implement clear, intentional strategies that grow your impact and income without sacrificing your integrity, values, or relationships—so your outer success reflects your inner truth.
Impeccable Accountability
Rise to a higher standard of action through real-time support and accountability, ensuring you stay consistent, committed, and aligned with the man you’re becoming.
Testimonials from impact-driven men just like you...
Here's what they have to say:
What You'll Walk Away With:
1. Clarity of Vision & Purpose
2. Authentic Self-Expression
3. Increased Impact & Income
4. Higher Standard of Integrity
5. Optimized Health & Wellbeing
6. Increased Leadership Capacity
7. Relationship Mastery
8. Lasting Happiness & Fulfillment
Here's What You'll Get:
1. Weekly 1-on-1 Coaching Calls
Designed to help you integrate your leadership in both business and love. We’ll work through blind spots, self-sabotaging patterns, and limiting beliefs that hold you back in both areas.
2. Holistic Business Strategy & Consulting
Tailored strategies combining 10+ years of business growth experience with emotional intelligence and personal leadership to ensure you scale your business while remaining aligned with your purpose and maintaining strong relationships.
3. 24/7 Access to Support & Accountability
Exclusive access to me via messaging for real-time support, accountability, and guidance. Whether you need to talk through a business challenge, share a relationship breakthrough, or receive feedback on an idea, I’ll be there to help you stay aligned and on track.
4. Transformational Breathwork Journeys
Experience breathwork sessions designed to help you release emotional blocks, cultivate mental clarity, and increase your resilience. These powerful journeys will support you in integrating your inner work with your external goals, helping you show up fully as a leader in both life and business.
5. Weekly Assignments and Integration
Receive tailored assignments and embodiment practices to reinforce your growth between sessions. These tools are designed to help you integrate new insights, deepen self-mastery, and bring your vision to life—both in your business and in your personal relationships.
6. Self-Mastery Tools & Resources
Access a comprehensive library of tools, including guided meditations, somatic practices, and reflective journal prompts. These resources are designed to help you integrate mental, emotional, and physical alignment, allowing you to fully embody your vision and lead with purpose in every area of your life.
7. Discounts on Exclusive Programs
As part of your coaching journey, you’ll receive discounted access to Training Grounds, a community of like-minded men committed to self-mastery, and Threshold, a 4-month rite of passage for modern leaders, including an 8-day wilderness experience.
Ready to embody the next evolution of your purpose and partnership? Choose your journey:
Jose Alejandro's Experience
These are all modalities we’re using when working together:
Mirroring & Self-Exploration
Life Coaching
Marketing & Biz Consulting
Embodied Leadership Training
Trauma-informed healing modalities
Men’swork & Group Dynamics
Visioning & Purpose Clarity
Brand & Personal Integrity
Elite Level Goal Setting & Accountability
Wilderness Rite of Passages
Transformational Breathwork
Spiritual / Ancestral Wisdom
Internal Family Systems
Human Behavioral Psychology
Nervous system Regulation
Masculine & Feminine Dynamics
Non-Violent Communication
Money / Abundance Mindset
Mindfulness & Grounding Practices
NLP
Plant Medicine Integration
Somatics & Mind/body connection
Certifications & Trainings Include:
– Elementum Coaching Institute: Master Coaching Certification (2021)
– Guides Guild: 3 Year Wilderness Rites Guide Apprenticeship (2021-2024)
– O2 Collective | Dan Brule: Breathwork Fundamentals Certification
– COMPASS | Rising Man Movement : 4 Month Leadership Program and Traditional Wilderness Rite of Passage (2020)
– (2) Inferno | Rising Man Movement: Men’s Work Training (2021)
– DOJO | Rising Man Movement: Year Long Embodied Leadership Training Program (2021-2022)
– Path of Embodied Masculine | John Wineland: 6 Month Masculine Embodiment Program (2021)
– The Rope | Rainier Wylde: 12 Week Men’s Program (2021)
– 1-on-1 Shadow Work Program | Rainier Wylde: 3 Month Shadow Work Training (2021)
– Sacred Intimacy & Embodiment Teacher Training | John Wineland: (2024-Present)
– Multiple Art of Sacred Intimacy Workshops | John Wineland (2020-Present)
– 1000’s of hours coaching men individually and group setting
– 10+ Years Marketing and Business Experience
– 8+ Years Participating and Leading Men’s Groups
– 300+ Individuals Guided Through Somatic Breathwork Journeys
– 1000’s of hours of my own work and practice
What Others Are Saying...
I found so much joy working with Jose and being in his program. I’m moving forward making a bigger impact and feeling a lot of gratitude for this container.
Earl S.
The caliber of men that Jose brings into his program speaks to who he is and his vision. The information is presented in a way that is both powerful and digestible. His commitment to empowering men and my impact was incredible.
Soma M.
Working with Jose has helped me level up in so many areas of my life. l’ve been able compassionately transform myself, honor my inner child and move on to become a healthier man and leader in all areas of my life.
Antonio F.
I am extremely grateful for the tools you gave me. Thank you for what you do to and for helping me find my truth, own my power and release all that trauma that was holding me back from my vision.
Luis E.
Jose really pushed me to my edge and helped me embody so much of what I was avoiding by holding a powerful space. His program helped me see the depth of my impact and who I am.
Ewan C.
Not only did you help me connect deeper to my own truth and expression, you allowed me to create new evidence that it is safe to trust and open. Your embodiment, listening ability and depth of presence are just a few of the many things I learned from you.
Robert S.
Working with Jose was, to date, the best coaching I have ever received. Simplicity, great questions, and the right practices at the right time. I was able to take my self-mastery to a deeper level and embody my vision. I would highly recommend working with Jose. Grateful for the experience.
Edgar M.
Working with Jose helped me feel more integrity in my relationships because I feel like I’m living authentically. With Jose’s help, I was able to allow myself to feel and release emotions, put in my notice at my job and get paid doing my first workshop! I am now living in a way that fires me up.
Rob F.
Jose’s coaching was powerful, supportive, caring. I feel more capable of handling ALL the emotions that come from life. I am less resistant to going into my shame, talking about my failures and mistakes, and am more willing to look at that with others.
Adam K.
Your quality of life, relationships and impact you make in the world is a direct reflection of one thing:
your level of commitment to the inner work and healing.
What Other Leaders Have To Say:
“I had so many breakthroughs each and every week with Jose. I got way more than the cost of the investment of the his journey. Just after the first four weeks of being in it, I sold over $20,000 dollars worth of my services and felt good about it, felt fulfilled and knew that I could deliver the impact to these guys.”
Jeddy Azuma
Founder of The Rising Man
“Something that I’ve learned from Jose is storytelling and the power of storytelling and the importance of really connecting to an audience. Not only does Jose provide that level of guidance and have second to none expertise, but he’s available, he cares, he’s genuine, and he’s sincere.”
Stefanos Sifandos
Relationship Coach & Teacher
“I would recommend Jose to any purpose-driven leader. I was making mid five figures when I met Jose and through my work with him and through embodying the practices that he teaches in his program as well as our one-on-one work, it’s easy for me to say that I’m a six figure business owner today.”
Zach Carlson
High-Impact Coach
Hey, I’m Jose Alejandro.
I’m a master certified life and leadership coach, embodiment teacher, business consultant and wilderness rite of passage guide with over 8 years of experience empowering men to become the leader their vision requires.
My clients–purpose-driven men executives, entrepreneurs, creatives, and visionaries—come to me to increase their capacity to lead and love so they can create aligned success, deepen their relationships, and amplify their impact.
I’ve trained and apprenticed with world-renowned teachers in embodiment, leadership, relational intimacy, men’s work and rites of passage. My work weaves together psychology, somatic practices, intentional strategy, and initiatory experiences that help men break through self-sabotage, build emotional resilience, and create lives rooted in purpose, devotion and impact.
My mission is to initiate a new paradigm of masculinity by guiding men into conscious, embodied leadership rooted in truth, integrity and love.
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